Saturday, June 30, 2018

28/ Recipe

The whine is that I forgot to include this in our food month. It was Lizzie's #1 requested food during her visit. And it's my original recipe--first time sharing it! But don't feel obligated to try it (seriously). If you do, I hope you like it. And you can use tofu instead of chicken.

Susan's Original All-in-One Baked Asian Chicken

2 tbsp. fresh lemon juice
1/3 cup Japanese (Kikkoman) soy sauce
1/3 cup smooth natural peanut butter
1 tsp. curry powder 
2 cloves garlic, pressed
1-1/2 tsp. Asian hot chili sauce
Four skinless, boneless chicken breasts

Combine all ingredients except chicken and mix well.  Immerse chicken in sauce.  Not necessary to marinate.  Simply coat chicken well with sauce and place in roasting pan.  You may crowd the chicken.  Spoon remaining sauce over the chicken and bake at 400º (one level above middle rack) until cooked though…45-60 minutes.  Serve whole as entrée or cubed as appetizer.

27/ Shoes

Sierra Trading Post is my favorite place to buy shoes online. I don't buy them often, and they're always off-season clearance items. I've had mostly good results. But (you knew there would be a but) the last pair I bought—months ago—are too narrow. They're a 9M, but they fit like a 9N. Wedge-heel sandals with one gold strap and one tan in a snakeskin pattern, they're so pretty (although you might not have guessed that from my description, so here's a photo!) and otherwise so comfortable that I couldn't bear to send them back. I convinced myself that they weren't as narrow as they seemed, and they might very well fit me when summer came. I was wrong.


26/ Betrayed by a Cat

My son and DIL  have two cats, Oscar and Emmy—brother and sister. I've known them since they were kittens, which must be about 8 years now. Emmy in particular is laid back, infinitely patient with the little boys. I've had multiple cats of my own for decades and are always attentive to these two when I babysit. I never had an issue with them. Until this month.

I fed them for five days a few weeks ago when their family was away. For the first four days, Emmy hissed at me—something she'd never done before (with anyone, as far as I know). On the fifth day she attacked my lower leg. I was wearing boots—grateful for them!—and she didn't connect with my skin.

This weekend I'm back on cat-feeding duty. When I arrived there this morning Emmy was lying on her back. She let me pet her, and even let me lightly scratch her tummy. Her ears didn't go back, and everything seemed back to normal. But as I got out the cat food, without any preliminary hissing she attacked—above my boot this time. It hurt!

A little while later, as I was finishing up, she did it again.  I checked my leg when I got home, and I was bleeding in four places. Major sting when I cleaned up the scratches. But my feelings are hurt most of all.

25/ Nosebleeds

I can't remember the last time I blew my nose, even gently. It would be guaranteed to trigger a nosebleed. I get them often, and the ENT doctor couldn't find the weak spot responsible. Occasionally I get one that's hard to stop, but usually they're not a big deal. Just annoying, and especially so when I wake up with one. Like this morning.

Friday, June 29, 2018

24/ Just Call Me Chicken Little

Trump isn't a temporary blip. Even if he lasts "only" four years in the White House, all those young Federal judges he appointed will have their jobs for life, and people like the thoroughly scary Stephen Miller aren't going away. He may well find lots of people ready to vote for him in any capacity, especially now that white supremacists and other haters have gotten a thumbs-up from those in power. In 2016 millions of Americans voted for a con man—a charletan. An ill-informed, ego-driven, perpetually lying, mentally unstable TV personality. The presidential mold has been broken, and I don't see a way to put it back together again.

I recently talked with a friend who said he has distanced himself from the news. He used to be a news hound, but now he steers clear of it because there's nothing he can do about it. Instead, he pays attention to his family, his work, and his community—things he can impact. I understand why he made this decision, and I'm well aware of the effect the current White House has had on my health. But I'm afraid that the action he has taken is likely what many in Germany must have done in the 1930s—before the sky fell.

23/ Heat

Eighty-seven degrees today, and climbing to 95º on Sunday. This afternoon I was out in the sun, long pants tucked into rubber boots, feeding the chickens, changing their water, and moving the "broodies" off everyone's eggs: five under one, nine under the other. One was unreachable to lift, so I had to use a hoe to gently pull her off. Sweaty work.

Since I whined so much about the unseasonably chilly spring, I thought it only fair to whine about the heat.

Tuesday, June 26, 2018

21/ Time Flies

I had a lovely time visiting with my granddaughter, Liz, who is up from Florida this week. We played rummy and Scrabble yesterday, and I made her food requests for dinner. Then my son and his family came over for chocolate egg creams, after which Liz and I watched a movie ("The Disaster Artist"). This morning I made another food request for breakfast, and then we drove to town. Hit the library first (she helped me pick out books to buy for our favorite 4- and 6-year-olds), then Salvation Army (she found a cute rain jacket), and then her favorite European-style restaurant for lunch. The whine: It all went by so quickly.

20/ Since you insist . . .

It doesn't seem right to whine when your granddaughter, so loving and beautiful and so much fun, who lives in Florida, is spending a couple of days with me. But since you insist, I'll tell you that when I stepped outside on this gorgeous morning I discovered deer had eaten all my hostas. Worse, it was my own fault for not being conscientious about spraying Liquid Fence.

19/ Sleep

I feel strongly that we (or at least I) need sufficient sleep to stay healthy. Sleep is when we heal. But I suspect I didn't do much healing last night. I had trouble falling asleep, and when I did, it was well past 1:00 a.m. Then I awoke at 5:20 and couldn't get back to sleep. So I got up. I can tell right now, at 8:15, that I could easily fall back to sleep any time this morning. But my granddaughter and I have plans between now and about 2:00 p.m., which will get me home no earlier than 2:30. I see more coffee than usual in my future.

Monday, June 25, 2018

18/ Insect/Arachnid Care

This time of year before I tend to the cats in the morning I have to tend to smaller creatures: Save fireflies that got into the house and need to get out. Remove various moths from various walls and windows. Check sinks for spiders large and small. Check cat beds for ticks (none so far—yay!), but do not save.

Sunday, June 24, 2018

17/ Three Words

Lettuce. Peas. Groundhog.

16/ Bad Advice

When I was pregnant with my second child, one of my best friends was married to a psychologist. This was 1975, and he subscribed to the tabula rasa theory that we are blank slates when we are born. Everything my child would become, he told me, depended on my input. There was no "nature vs. nurture" in his mind. It was nurture all the way.

But even as a newborn, Gillian was noticeably different from her sister. I mentioned this to the learned psychologist, and he said—insisted—that I must have treated her differently. I knew I hadn't, but he said the difference could be so subtle that I'd be unaware of it. He and his wife soon moved away. I wonder at what point in his practice he had to admit defeat on this issue.

A few years later my son was born. Ms. magazine was trying to tell us that girls and boys are the equivalent of blank slates. Despite obvious biological differences, if we would just treat them equally (i.e., give dolls to boys), they'd grow up very much alike. Well, my son had plenty of his sisters' dolls at his disposal, but I stopped thinking about all that the day my male toddler looked out the window and exclaimed in delight, "TRUCK, Mama!! BIG truck!!!" His sisters had never done that. Not even close.

15/ Beyond Obituaries

People always joke about reaching the age where you read the obituaries most days. I've been at that age for quite some time. But now I'm at the age where people I know well—in my social circle, in my extended family, people I've kept in touch with since childhood, people with whom I email often,  people I sang with, dined with, laughed with, workshopped poetry with, shared the minutiae of daily life with—are dying. We don't joke about this.

Saturday, June 23, 2018

14/ Herpes Simplex

Worst. Cold sore. Ever.

Well, that's not quite accurate. When I was 19 a misguided doctor administered a series of 12 smallpox vaccinations in an attempt to cure my cold sores, and at the end of the series I broke out in one that went from my lips to under my chin. That was probably the worst. one. ever. This current outbreak goes from the middle of my upper lip up to my nose. Not just to my nose, but onto it.

I've read that one might get a warning before the the first—and only the first—outbreak. Not true. I almost always get trigeminal neuralgia as a warning. I've also read that swollen glands might accompany only the first outbreak. Also not true. Got that too—on the same side of my face as the trigeminal neuralgia.

L-Lysine helps, as does aloe gel applied straight from the plant. But it's still an ugly, uncomfortable waiting process.

Friday, June 22, 2018

13/ Government Spending (mini version)

Some years ago I was hired by the Census Bureau to administer tests to applicants for census-taker jobs. They said I had to drive about 25 miles every day to pick up my pay. This sounded crazy to me. I told them I was unwilling to spend my time and the price of gasoline doing that. They insisted, and so I said I wouldn't take the job. The end result was that they hired me—and hired a delivery service to drive my pay to me every afternoon.

Granted, this is crazy spending on a small scale. But does this mean large-scale government spending makes more sense? Unlikely.

Wednesday, June 20, 2018

12/ Peeling Hard-Boiled Eggs

I've always found hard-boiled eggs hard to peel, and now that I get them direct from the chickens it's worse. The eggs are fresher, of course, which is suppose to make peeling more difficult, plus the shells are thicker.

At the request of my granddaughter I'm making curried egg salad today, so if anyone has a method to make peeling easier, please share!

11/ Amazon reviews

I rely on Amazon reviews, but not all of them are useful. I don't know which I dislike more--the gushing, obviously fake positive reviews ("Best. Book. Ever!!!!!!) or the negative reviews that have nothing whatsoever to do with the product ("I can't believe my stupid brother-in-law gave this to me as a gift when he knows I already have one.")

Sunday, June 17, 2018

10/ Back Pain

It sucks. I have three kinds, but even one kind would suck. This year the three sort of converged—that is, they all happen at the same time—and that seems to be a permanent situation. The result is I have to sit down a lot. Not necessarily for long, but often.

So many things get worse as we get older; does anything get noticeably better? I took an informal poll of several friends, and we decided the researcher who said the seventies is the happiest decade must have been drunk.

9/ Mice

Pistachios are expensive. I buy several bags at a time, keeping them on my pantry shelf. Mice have never gotten into the heavy plastic packaging. But on this Father's Day I have reason to remember something my dad used to say: "There's a first time for everything."

Saturday, June 16, 2018

8/ Fireworks

Oh, great. It's June 16 and someone is setting off Fourth of July rockets tonight.

7/ Sam's Club

I've been a member of Sam's Club for years. It made sense when I was feeding a family of five, but a lot less sense since I've been living alone. Plus the store is about 25 miles from me, and I don't go often. Still, Sam's was great for things I eat a lot of--like walnuts and almonds and pistachios, dried fruit, and the big boxes of spring mix greens they had before other stores stocked them. When I was selling regularly on eBay, Sam's was a good source of shipping supplies. Plus I often found great gifts--or gift ideas--there.

But things seem to be going downhill at Sam's. They stopped selling Diamond walnuts, and their Member's Mark brand isn't worth opening. If you do, you'll notice the rancid smell right away. The pistachios I bought recently could have been bought for the same price at Walmart (15 miles closer). And I was not happy with my latest box of spring greens, which was dominated by an unidentified rather coarse leaf attached to a too-long stem. For less than $1 more, Walmart's is much better.

On that same trip to Sam's I bought t-shirts for my grandsons. They wear sizes 4 and 8, so that's what I bought. But both had to be returned because they were way too small. So is my current opinion of Sam's Club.

6/ Antenna TV

Actually, I'm a big fan of antenna TV. We've never had cable, and the 12 or so stations the antenna brings in are more than enough for me. But getting TV reception from an antenna is not for those addicted to a series or passionate about watching a sporting event; it's just too erratic.

Last night I saw quite a few dishes in the sink at bedtime, and realized that's been happening a lot lately. Then I remembered my kitchen TV hasn't brought in my favorite stations for several weeks. A big storm must have changed the angle of the antenna. I didn't realize I needed "Antiques Roadshow" or "Superstore" to entertain me while I do dishes, but now I know.

Friday, June 15, 2018

5/ The Anesthesiologist

Okay, here’s my dilemma: When I had surgery late last year (nothing terribly  major), my experience with the anesthesiologist minutes beforehand was awful. Really upsetting. She was rude and nasty to me, refused my requests, and blamed me when I had a bad reaction to a totally unnecessary drug she administered. I knew immediately following the surgery that I wanted to write a letter to her, with a copy to the manager of the practice she belonged to. It took me six months to do this—partly because I can’t spend sustained periods of time staring at the computer monitor, partly because thinking about what happened made me so uncomfortable, and partly because I was so angry that my letter turned into a rant so long that no one would ever want to read the whole thing.

This week I finally edited it down (to two pages), and was all set to mail it when I discovered the address I had for her practice might not be correct. I Googled her to check on this, and ended up looking at her Facebook page. What I saw was a fun-loving family, totally at odds with my perception of her. Happy kids (of course, we’re all happy in FB photos, but still…) and involved dad. Not so many pics of her, but we all know how that goes. Anyway, now I’m not so sure I want to mail that letter. Maybe it has served its purpose? What do you think?

Thursday, June 14, 2018

4/ Washing My Car (the whine is implicit)

I was psyched to wash my seriously dirty Caprice. (Nothing encases a car in dirt like a dirt road.) Needed a hose, so rather than bother my son (who has them all stashed away) I bought my own 25-footer at Walmart. Brought all my supplies outside, and then I hooked up the hose. Threaded connection felt good, nice and tight. Added a nozzle and turned on the water. Half of it shot straight up in the air from the point of connection. The other half shot out at an angle--hitting me--from a neat round hole in the brand new hose. Abandoned everything, changed my clothes, and drove to the car wash.

Sunday, June 10, 2018

3/ Damn Ticks (and the damn CDC)

I lived here at least 30 years without a tick bite (that I know of). We removed the occasional tick from our dogs, but never saw nor heard of deer ticks. But for the past 10 years or so, deer ticks have been almost as common a topic of conversation as the weather.

So many have been affected, and yet there’s still no consensus about treatment. In the U.S., the Centers for Disease Control dictates statistics and treatment, and they’re so far off base on tick-borne illness that it’s a joke. Except it isn’t funny. I’ve been infected with babesia, a Lyme co-infection so expensive to test for that it’s impossible for the Red Cross to screen blood donors. As a result, the public blood supply is contaminated with it. I wrote an article about this when I worked for the newspaper. That was years ago, and I doubt the situation has improved. If anything, it’s probably gotten worse.

Because there’s no standard of treatment, doctors’ responses to tick bites depend on whatever reading they’ve done on their own—or what they had for breakfast. I’m lucky that my doctor gives me whatever I ask for. Some will prescribe only two doxycycline pills; others go for a 7- or 10-day course of treatment. Going back a bunch of years, I asked my doctor for a 30-day supply, and got it. But then my veterinarian said, “Only one month? We treat dogs for two months.” So I upped it to two months.

In the beginning I didn’t know the importance of taking a good probiotic when you’re taking antibiotics, and the effects linger. With chronic Lyme and babesiosis, I try to keep symptoms to a minimum without antibiotics these days. The two biggest helps are juicing vegetables and getting lots of rest. And I learned the hard way this month to steer clear of online arguments, no matter how passionately I feel about the topic. Stress makes everything worse.

Wednesday, June 6, 2018

2/ I hate being so behind!

This is post #2 for June, so I should be writing it on June 2. This is what I've done ever since our blogging project started in January. I've been faithful. But now I'm unfaithful. It's not June 2, it's June 6. I suck.

Last week the Lyme spirochetes I carry with me took advantage of a break in my resistance and rose up like prisoners might if all the guards took a mental health day. After months without experiencing a single one of the dreaded ocular migraines, I had five of them in six days. Looking at computer monitors triggers them, as do fluorescent lights. So I've been spending less time at the computer. I'll whine about what started this problem in my next post.

Saturday, June 2, 2018

1/ Whining Isn't Only for Humans

Two of my cats are complainers. Fortunately, they're otherwise lovable and quite beautiful—two of my all-time favorite cats. Rocky's one blue eye and frequent vocalizing are Siamese traits. He blames me for wind, rain and snow. This adds up. Pogo's complaints aren't as clearly defined. You'll hear "What's wrong, Pogo?" around here. And "It's not my fault, Rocky."



31/ Cookbooks: Some Old Favorites

Blueberry Hill Cookbook (Masterton)
Grow It and Cook It (Heriteau)
Recipes for a Small Planet (Ewald)
Complete Meals in One Dish (Waldo)
The Complete Round the World Cookbook (Waldo)
Nourishing Your Unborn Child (Williams)
Whole Foods for the Whole Family (LaLecheLeague)
Mother's in the Kitchen (LaLecheLeague)
Tofu Goes West (Landgrebe)
The 15-Minute Gourmet – Vegetarian (Mitchell)



Friday, June 1, 2018

30/ Yogurt

I eat a lot of Greek yogurt, mostly plain Fage and always non-fat. I love it with walnuts--plain yogurt and plain walnuts. Sounds awfully plain, but with good walnuts it's a treat. Sometimes I crave small containers with fruit on the bottom, but I eat the yogurt off the top and discard the "fruit."

29/ Citrus

Grapefruit: When they're in season, I eat one a day.
Oranges: For some reason, oranges make my joint pain worse.
Lemons: A wonderfully generous online friend ships heavy boxes of homegrown Meyer lemons to me every winter. Delicious!
Limes: I like them in theory, and in practice too. But they deteriorate quickly in my fridge.

28/ Rhubarb!

A sturdy patch of rhubarb came with this house, and we use it and give it away every year. I love the flavor, but wish it didn't need so much damn sugar. Because it does, I haven't eaten it in a long time. Last weekend I made a rhubarb cake. The (other) adults loved it.


27/ Places: Selling Stuff

I've been selling stuff (there's no better word to describe things we've owned but no longer want) online for a dozen or more ye...